12th May X Catechism

May 12, 2020

Good Morning! 🙂

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So ! Let's start today's class !!!

During the last class, we looked at how we are responsible for choosing our behaviour - in particular, our internet behaviour - keeping in mind our best growth and development.

Read this passage from the letter of St Paul to the Christian in Rome Ch 14 vs 7 - 9 : "In fact, none of us lives for himself, nor dies for himself. If we live, we live for the Lord, and if we die, we die for the Lord. Either in life or death we belong to the Lord. It was for this purpose that Christ both died and came to life again, to be the Lord both of the living and of the dead."

Why do we "live" or "die" for the Lord? Is it because God wants our obedience like a ruler over his people, just for the rulers good? Definitely NOT

St Ireneus tells us "The Glory of God is man fully alive"
Jesus said Jn 10 : 10 "I have come that they may have life and have it to the full",
in the story of creation - in the book of Genesis, we are told that after creating all the universe and human beings "God found it was very good" - what's the meaning of this?

God is most pleased when we come into the fullness of ourselves

God doesn't want anything from us for the Godself - God is completely self-sufficient
we Christians believe that God sent Jesus because God is so concerned that we are ruining ourselves - defeating the reason he created us! We are destroying ourselves and destroying others!
That is why St Paul says that the life and death of each of us has it's influence on others - St Paul needn't have told us that - psychologists, social-behaviorists will tell us the same thing!

Did you hear about - on your social interaction or on the media about the following 2 incidents?

Father of Class 12 boy who jumped to death blames girl’s online post
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/gurgaon/father-of-class-12-boy-who-jumped-to-death-blames-girls-online-post/articleshow/75614072.cms
Bois Locker Room: Delhi schoolboy in custody over chat group glorifying rape, sharing nudes of under-age girls https://www.freepressjournal.in/india/bois-locker-room-delhi-schoolboy-in-custody-over-chat-group-glorifying-rape-sharing-nudes-of-under-age-girls

Kindly read about these incidents by clicking onto the two links - or copy the link onto your search engine and you will be able to read the stories.

What is all this about?
Why does it happen?
Do you receive sexually explicit material on your social media accounts?
Do you search for sexually explicit material on the net?
Have you sent sexually related material to someone?

These are some of the questions we are going to begin to look at today and in the days which follow - but just now

How do you feel and what do you think about my asking you such questions or bringing up this topic?

Do you think

Oh, now I'm going to get a lecture !!!!
Brother has to discuss these things!
What does Brother know !!!!?????

Or do you think

I'm not okay with such interaction on social media
I know this is illegal and harmful, but..... what to do.... it happens.
such activity ... maybe on a lighter scale takes place among my classmates ... there are fights.... but those involved get some enjoyment in this

Do you feel

annoyed
amused
bored
concerned
interested

Let's say just a few introductory things about boys growing to be men

we are all sexual beings - we are born with particular sexual organs - this gives us a basic identity - boy/girl

these days we open about admitting that some persons are born inter-sex - not identifiably male or female

we are learning that such persons are fully human

we are learning to respect their individuality
we are learning to change we the way we talk about and to such people
we are learning to relate equally with such persons.
the civil law requires that such persons be treated equally / not discriminated against / not disrespected

these days we are also open to understanding that some persons are transgender

though they are born with the sexual organs which may identify themselves as boy or girl, they feel that this is not their true identity

some of these persons decide to have a sex-change
some of these persons may decide to be as they are

we are learning to understand these persons
we are learning to respect these persons
we are learning to relate equally with such persons
the civil law requires that such persons be treated equally / not discriminated against / not disrespected

God, in God's wisdom and love, has created us sexual

Genesis 1 : 27 :"So, God created man in his image; in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them"

So, for some reflection

how are you about being created male/intersex/transgender? (the list of feelings are only a few, if you have feelings which are not named - that's fine).

inquisitive
fascinated
guilty
ashamed
amused

Can you invite Jesus to be with your thoughts and feelings just now?

Look at the A4 sheet of your river of life, looking back on the last 15 / 16 years of your life into the future

what has your experience of being a sexual person been?

think about the years and incidents
remember - these experiences started when you were small

from getting used to being toilet trained!
all children become curious about their own bodies and the difference of their bodies with those of the opposite sex
some children have the experience of genital exploration

by the age of 5 children notice the difference in the way the sexes behave - ever read the comics of Dennis the Menace? - Notice the interaction of Dennis with Margaret and Joey
by the age of 10 or 11, children become of aware of their genital growth and sexual interest

this age has been reducing for many reasons - one being the food we eat and what we see and hear in the media
unfortunately, most adults and teachers do not help children at this age - they think that they are too small to understand sex - or don't know how to interact with youngsters on the matter of sexual development

children do not know how to comfortably discuss their sexual interest and needs with their parents and most trusted adults
children (especially boys) have a need to show that they "know it all" (when they don't) and they speak or talk about sex using the language older teenagers often use

from 12 years onwards children will feel increasingly sexually interested, aroused, attracted and interested to those of the opposite sex or to the same sex or both
youngsters try and cope with these very strong natural, healthy drive

learning how to live a healthy sexual life is a very important learning
I shall be taking this up, hopefully when we return to face-to-face classes
presently, I'm tackling the unfortunate presence of unhelpful matter on the internet - matters which will lead to very unhealthy ways of living one's sexual life - ways which will be destructive of oneself and of others.

How do you feel as you remember and look back on your life - be open to your feelings - don't push them down - you might find it helpful to write the name of your feeling - be careful where you journal - this is personal.
Invite Jesus to be with you and to feel your feelings and remember your life's experiences with you.

Please remember, that if you you feel overwhelmed about matters in your life - you can reach out to Mrs Aarti Bardhgan or Mrs Sangeeta Tripathi your counsellors from the middle school.

Be cautious of looking for material regarding the same on the internet - unless you are being guided responsibly. Thank you - You need to care for yourself

"To thine own self be true, and it must follow - as the night the day - thou canst not then be false to any man"- Shakespeare in the drama Hamlet

Take heart ! Jesus is risen ! He has ascended into Heaven (that event is particularly marked this year on the 21st May) He is with you !

Rev 3 : 20 : Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me."

Take care! See you the next day !!! 👍🏽 🖐🏼